Traditional and authentic or Exaggerated and fetishy? Which do you prefer?
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I've noticed a lot of comments around these forums about how expensive fetishwear and sissywear can be. I'm wondering how many other people are like me and choose not to wear exaggerated fetish-wear in favour of their real-world equivalents.

For example, instead of paying $50 for something like this:

I instead went to my local Vinnies (an Australian charity-run second hand shop) and picked up the uniforms from some of my local all-girl catholic schools. one of which looks like this:

The others are even more delightful - a navy pinafore over a white blouse and tie as well as a burgundy plaid dress which buttons up the front and has a wide white peterpan collar.

Similarly, instead of paying $200 for a fancy maid's uniform like this:

I instead payed $20-something for a dress that looks a lot like this:


The same thing goes for nurse outfits - I've picked up a tight fitting, white zip-up-the-front nurse dress from Vinnies for something like $5. The best part about this one is that it actually looks a bit like a fetish outfit anyway  

Provided you only buy one outfit at a time and go to different stores each time you shouldn't get too embarrased. If you get confronted about it just say you're going to a costume party (this excuse has worked twice for me, every other time I've not even been commented on).

I don't know about everyone else, but in some of these instances I actually prefer the non-fetish outfits - this in addition to the fact that I paid less and was able to get good fitting costumes without risking mis-sizing by ordering over the internet. There's the added excitement of wearing outfits worn by other girls and women before me. Also, there's the fact that with appropriate hair and makeup I can wear most of these outfits outside without looking so obviously like a cross-dresser (of course this is within reason - It's not very convincing to see a 5 foot 10 school girl on Sydney's main night-club strip at 2am, but I'm sure you get my point).

Of course adult baby stuff is much harder to find authentic outfits that fit, but if you look hard enough and have a small enough frame you can have some luck - I've found one white, linen dress with a very large lace collar which was nothing but AB, but that's been it.

Granted, I have my moods and sometimes just must have myself bound in my Yellow PVC high-necked lockable maid's outfit, but I've found that I've saved hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars by moderating my extravagant purchases with plenty of straight-laced ones. I've also been able to add a little extra realism to some of my role-playing.

It's also fun! I love scouring bargain bins and racks in search for that perfect outfit and if you've got a sympathetic female friend who also like bargain hunting you can make it a fun day out together.

So how about everyone else - do you agree? Or do you just itch for that PVC, leather or latex feel and find that plain old polyester or cotton just can't do it for you?
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sarah2cutis
Oh my god I recognise that uniform I just cant place it ,is it Ogilvie? anyway I found the Salvation Army store always has the most adorable 60,s nighties all baby doll and so cute ..
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Wannabe_Baby
Well fetishwear is generally supposed to be exaggerated and over the top. In fact, I'd say your post highlighted the difference between being a cross-dresser/transvestite and being a sissy; I would much rather have the lacy maid's uniform rather than the dull, boring realistic one that you showed a picture of. As for the school girl outfit, I honestly wouldn't have either of them. If anything, the first one doesn't look fetish-y enough.

I don't think people will mind the cost of fetishwear -- they'll just restrict their purchasing -- but with a lot of fetishes being a form of escapism, I think the exaggerated outfits are what they prefer. And, as you mentioned, adult babies don't really have a lot of choice.
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SissyJessy
Well I suppose it depends, do you have the money to spare for the more fetishy outfit? Personally, since my body isn't too feminine, I prefer the fetishy outfits, since I don't plan to wear them outside (yet <3) and they look more, err for lack of a better word, "fantasy-ish" for my playtime. Its personal preference really, assuming the money isn't an option for the fetish wear.
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Fem Prince C


 Well I suppose it depends, do you have the money to spare for the more fetishy outfit? Personally, since my body isn't too feminine, I prefer the fetishy outfits, since I don't plan to wear them outside (yet <3) and they look more, err for lack of a better word, "fantasy-ish" for my playtime. Its personal preference really, assuming the money isn't an option for the fetish wear.  



Depending on your abilities you could jazz up stuff you bought from 'regular' stores to make it a bit more fetish looking. An alternative to a maids dress might be a white blouse skirt, with a white apron to which you may add a touch more lace at say the hem.
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Baby Butch
I have certainly noticed one thing, if a product is marketed toward ABDL's or Crossdressers the price goes way up. I have bought a nice pink girls nightgown at Ross Dress For Less for $6.99.
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