Friends and help

PG 13 Friends and help

Rose Marie

Posted on December 10th, 2015 ~ 5:43 pm

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Hi! I'm still kinda a closet case here, but I'd like to make some friends who can help me improve my confidence. I'd like to post some pics of myself, and even go out in public, but I'm too nervous. I'm hoping to make some friends, both online and off who can help me feel more comfortable letting the little girl in me out.

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littlegirl_inside

Posted December 10th, 2015 ~ 7:42 pm

It is difficult taking those first steps, I'm still too shy to post pictures showing my face and have only let a few people see me as a little girl. First steps are meeting other sissies online, you learn so much from those who are walking the path you want to tread. Also, try taking pics of yourself but hiding your face, this way you can show the world who you are but retain that privacy. As you grow in confidence you will find you become braver I'm sure, x x x

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kay3070

Posted December 11th, 2015 ~ 1:46 am

Hi Rose Marie, good to meet you. I really understand where you're coming from, I was the same myself. You might not think so to look at my posts but, in truth, until a couple of months ago I had never posted any dressed up pictures of myself anywhere. I'd wanted too but was way too nervous about it. When I joined here recently, I saw all the wonderful posts and plucked up the courage to take that step. I'll be honest, my heart was pumping away like mad when I hit that send key. The welcome I got was wonderful - lovely comments complimenting my outfits as well as friend invites within a short time of putting them up. I can't tell you how much it meant, I felt so at ease. It didn't take me long to post some others after that.
I truly hope you find the confidence that you are looking for. The way I see it, you've already gone from purely wanting to post some pictures to actually going online and saying that you'd like to in a post, so it sounds like your confidence is definitely building.
I hope this helps at least a little. Wishing you all the best on where ever your journey takes you and hoping you have a lot of fun on the way.
Have a great day.
K.

MU-WAH!!! luv and hugs from Kay Kandyfloss xxx

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Prissie

Posted December 11th, 2015 ~ 11:06 pm

You found the right place! Welcome aboard. I've been out in public en femme a few times. My advice is, put together a good outfit - skirt, top, hose and heels. Dehair your arms and legs, put on makeup and nail polish, dress up and just go out! Only problem you might have, is if you have to go to the bathroom. I always wee myself out before going out en femme so that problem won't arise.

Today I went to work wearing women's jeans (the office tends to be quiet on Friday). Its a nice feeling. We all should try it!

By the way if you like the Adult Little Girl phenom, check out forum.girltalk.to

Best wishes letting your little girl come out and play,

Prissie

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Baby-Bethany

Posted December 13th, 2015 ~ 8:38 pm

Hi Rose Marie and welcome to Sissy Kiss.

You're definitely in the right place if you want to make friends and be encouraged to be more of a little girl. Don't feel bad about not having the confidence to post pictures of yourself or going out in public. Many of us have have never shared pictures of ourselves or gone out in public either.

If I may use myself as an example, in the past 5ish years since I discovered my sissy baby side of my personality. I've shared a grand total of 2 or 3 photos, all of which don't show my face and aren't on this site any more (I know I deleted one and the others I think were lost during an upgrade). As for going out in public the most I've done is on a few occasions go out into my garden at night for a very short period of time and I once went outside my front door for about two minutes before I got too scared and had to rush back in.

In the privacy of my own home however it's a completely different story. I feel totally comfortable wearing very pink and babyish dresses, wearing and using diapers, playing with baby toys and so on.

What I'm going to encourage you to do is simply spend more time as a little girl. Wear cute outfits, if you like diapers wear and more importantly use them, watch childrens TV/films, get a colouring book and some crayons, buy and play with some girly toys (dollys etc not the adult kind!). Try spending a whole day or maybe even a weekend as a little girl. If you find yourself feeling comfortable with what you're doing, try taking a few photos of yourself, and if you really want to be brave post one or two here. If that goes well you might want to share more photos (or be a wuss like me). Then maybe try playing in your garden for a while. The key thing in my opinion is to take things slowly and don't feel bad because you're not sharing photos all over the internet and living as a little girl 24/7.

Another thing you could do is ask for a few tasks to complete in the appropriate section of this site. I'm sure that someone will come up with something you can try that pushes your limits.

Regressing to being a little girl can be daunting at first but even if you only manage it occasionally and in private it's definitely worth it. I'm usually at my happiest when I'm wearing a cute dress and a thick diaper.

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Jennifer Funshine

Posted December 25th, 2015 ~ 1:14 am

All very good advice from some of our top members here, there's not really much else I can add. If there is one piece of wisdom I can bestow it's to simply Be Yourself, darling. You'd be surprised by how little people actively go out of their way to harass a transgender girl. I know I'm still a bit finicky about being in public too but overall there's hasn't been any major negative reaction to dressing up outside, at least for me.

Of course the more thought and effort that goes into your outfit, the better.
Some people may even compliment you on your dress, choice of make up
or earrings and even if they don't, every time you go outside or take a photo
of yourself the process definitely gets easier as you go along.

I wish you all the best in your endeavor to become your true, beautiful self,
Rose Marie and never let anyone tell you who you can or can't be!

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