well idk much but can probably help u first tho u may need to reseach on the internet. a lot of info on the web can b helpful. when i get time ill try to help find some info and links to sites that maybe of some use. im kinda going thru the same thing tho i havent served in the military but am in the proccess of trying to get things together so i can start my proccess of the whole sex change. i use to have a roommates who recieved va benifets i no longer have contact with them but i do know a thing or two about va benifets. so i have to go to bed now and am quite tired but when im on again ill try to b of some use. by the way im not trying to b rude or anything but the site here with its current community wont help u much i have found that out first hand by some of my posts on the forum. i have asked for help and support from the community here but so far really havent recieved much but am grateful for the 3 or 4 people here who have been there for me and i love them like sisters. anyways ill go now and try to post something tomorrow. eh nevermind im still up cant sleep ill be here.