While I recommend people try to come out or not care if someone else finds out about it; there is nothing to be ashamed of, its a harmless lifestyle. Maybe if its purely sexual to someone then I'd understand if they treat it as a private thing but still not worry if someone else find out about it unless that person was under age because any person 18 or over should know what sexuality is. Still if someone just likes to be fem and is in touch with their inner child thats nothing to be ashamed of and is not something that needs to be kept private.

At the same time there are situations where they can't come out at the moment, like if the people around them may be closed minded and its someone they want to be careful with in coming out to them because they have a close relationship with them. Some people choose not to come out at all to them because of that. Thats understandable and a sad situation but I say still don't stop looking for a possible way to come out. Who knows, maybe a way will show up. Life is short and people should spend it being themselves and doing other things that make them happy. Its all about the live and let live philosophy. Still thats a personal choice if they want to come out.

So I'll make a style for them, also we have styles like lovely fairy or sailor moon which if someone sees them people may think your on an anime site instead. If they are closed minded about anime then I don't know what to do hehe.