My sisters friend won't except that i'm gay

girlysteve

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Posted on March 15th, 2011 ~ 4:10 pm

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Hi

I have a problem with one of my sisters friends. She has told me that she has the hots for me. She knows that I am gay but she insists that she can convert me. I have told my sister about this problem but she just tells me to stop being such a drama queen.

When Lisa(my sisters friend) is over our place she keeps squeezing my arse and whispering in my ear that I am cute. Everytime she walks past me she squeezes right up to me and rubs herself against me. It is really starting to annoy me. The other day she came into my bedroom. As soon as she came in I got up to leave. She then stood in front of me and said that she wasn't going to move until I kissed her. I went to give her a peck but she grabbed me and stuck her tongue down my throat. She said 'Just give me 10 minutes with you and you'll never look at another man again'.

What should I do? Lisa just won't take no for an answer.

I would really appreciate any advice.

lots of gay hugs and kisses xxxx

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ashie

Posted March 16th, 2011 ~ 1:58 am

off topic, i just got the new pokemon game (pokemon black) and managed to catch my favorite pokemon

on topic, how old are you? that really effects how you deal with this situation. solutions that would not only be acceptable, but even effective, would work in middle/high school, would definitely not be usable in an older environment and more mature environment.

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civey

Posted March 16th, 2011 ~ 8:35 am

serve her the dick and when ur done nut on her face and tell her anh. your not as good as u thought you were. lol and then leave. she'll get the point then.

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baby_anna

Posted March 16th, 2011 ~ 10:35 am

Okay, the way I see things, you've tried the nice, polite method and it has failed. It's time to up the ante a good bit, and start getting a little mean. If she does something to or around you that you are not comfortable with, say so, but do not EVER use the term please, or worse "please don't do that". Please is gone. Please is for a REQUEST, you need to DEMAND. It is you body, your mind and your LIFE. She has absolutely NO RIGHT to try and change that, as it does not truly affect her or anyone else but you. This means your going to have to be stern, but don't yell (yelling is a sign of weakness), never be afraid to hurt her feelings (seeing as she is ignoring yours), and don't be afraid to extend beyond your normal vocabulary to get the point across (swear in the appropriate sentences, the f-word is especially effective in emphasising a point). In regards to your sister, if she decides to confront you on your new method of approach, calmly and (most importantly) firmly, explain to her that you gave her the chance to get involved and help, but that she declined and that you had no other feasable options left.

This method is dirty, painful and HIGHLY EFFECTIVE. If executed correctly, it is almost certainly going to work. If it doesn't, she is:

* Screwing with you.

* Doing it for a bet/dare she doesn't want to lose.

* Mentaly unhinged

* Any combination of the above.If any of these turns out to be the case, I would recomend screaming angrilly at her until she cries and then never appologise or even talk to her so that her infaturation turns to resentment. Do this only as a last resort, because it could possibly have unexpected consiquenses.

Hope I helped.

P.S. Anyone who read this, and thinks I'm being unfair, stop and actually think about it. This girl is refusing to acknowledge the feelings and wishes of girlysteve, why should he have to acknowledge hers?

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princesspansy

Posted March 16th, 2011 ~ 12:31 pm

Hi Girlysteve

A similar kind of thing happened to me a while ago. It certainly is a tough one as it seems to me that you are scared of this girl. I got around my problem by having anal sex with my girl problem. I just closed my eyes and imagined it was a man. When she realised what a bad fuck I was she quickly turned her attention to someone else.
I don't think that you can ignore her as the repercussions may be worse. Some girls just can't accept that some men are gay.
Please let us know what happens
love from princesspansy xxx

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Prissie

Posted March 18th, 2011 ~ 10:11 am

Years ago, like in the 1950's, it was a common belief about gay guys that if only they would have sex with the right female, they wouldn't be gay anymore. Today we know better. Seems to me you'd be better off telling your sister that you don't want to be around her friend anymore. Perhaps your sister also, has a problem about your being gay.

I can't improve on what Baby Anna advised. Girls have always reserved the right to slap if a guy refuses to lay off. I have trouble adjusting though, to the reverse situation. Cultural conditioning, I guess.

Peace and love,

Prissie

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Sissy Jenni

Posted March 19th, 2011 ~ 4:18 pm

Hi Steve,

I understand that can be messy. (First to get it out of the way - because I am passive, I would probably try to go along and let the situation run it's course. I might learn something but maybe not.)

In your situation it appears you just don't wish to... and I agree that you should NOT have to! It seems to me that since she is sooo determined, she may be more interested in dominating you rather actually converting you. Or if she really wants to convert you, it may be just as a conquest either way.

But as for a solution, I think Baby Anna's advice is best.

Sissy Jenni

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girlysteve

Posted March 20th, 2011 ~ 11:27 am

Hi everyone.
Thanks for everyone's advice but there have certainly been developments. Last night my sister held a birthday party at our flat. There were about 20 people invited including Lisa. Lisa showed up at about 21:00 dressed up like a tart. She obviously planned to get her claws into some poor man and I just hoped that it wasn't going to me. My fears eased when Lisa was getting off with some guy and I hoped that she had lost interest in me. I went back to my bedroom to watch the TV for a while but within 5 minutes Lisa came into my room uninvited. She said 'It's time to convert gay steve!'. What really annoyed me was that she said it in a gay voice and was imitating me. Before I could get up she was on top of me. I pleaded with her to get off. I said 'Please leave me alone Lisa, don't you understand that I'm gay. I don't like girls, I only like boys'. Luckily for me someone had overheard what was happening and came into my bedroom. It was Jonathon, an ex boyfriend of my sisters. Jonathon pulled Lisa off me and told her to leave. She wasn't happy and said 'This isn't over you little fairy, I'm going to get you soon'. She left the room and I thanked Jonathon for his help. I told him what had been happening and to my surprise he was really sympathetic. He then told me that the reason him and my sister had split up was that he too was gay. I couldn't believe it as Jonathon is very masculine. I felt his arms surround me and it wasn't long before we were sharing our first gay kiss. I felt like I was in heaven. Jonathon stayed over last night and it was so tender and loving. When I snuggled up to his hairy masculine chest I felt so safe and I knew that Lisa couldn't get me.

Anyway me and Jonathon have decided to be together and I'm so happy but I have a feeling that I haven't seen the last of Lisa

Gay hugs and kisses xxx

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~*Christie Luv*~

Posted March 20th, 2011 ~ 9:11 pm

Wow the "I'll get you" line was a classic corny villian line. This girl is asking for it. Try your best to reason with her, but if she doesn't stop, some humiliation is in order. Dump a drink on her, and then walk away. Let her know why you did it. Say sorry but, no means no. I wonder if you could file for sexual harassment. I don't know what the laws are where you live but you can look into that, and see if you can, because if she is forcefully sticking her tongue in your mouth, a ton of women and men have won sexual harassment cases for less. You will need evidence for it too, so find some way to secretly record what she does.

One way you can first try to reason with her though is to ask her to picture a girl doing the same thing she is doing, except to her, and she can't choose to be a lesbian, so why would she think you can choose to be straight?

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Sissy Jenni

Posted March 20th, 2011 ~ 10:24 pm

Geez. That's a good break about Jonathon. But I'm sure you'll have to let Lisa know in very clear terms that it's no game. It's a pity also that your sister doesn't understand that sexual harassment is not a trivial matter. Good luck. And again, I'm happy for you finding a new friend.

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Staciie

Posted March 22nd, 2011 ~ 9:05 am

This story turns me on. =)

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Sissynatalie6969

Posted April 19th, 2011 ~ 4:16 pm

haha! nice.

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Baby Butch

Posted April 21st, 2011 ~ 1:39 am

If you are not bisexual and only like men then she is wrong for what she is doing. You should just stay away from her and be with who you choose to. Even if you like women this one sounds a little too quick and loose for me. She could have a social disease and seems to be making fun of you?

Sounds like Jonathon likes you and may be the one to give Lisa the boot out the door. Good luck whatever you do and consider sexual harrassment charges.

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Posted April 21st, 2011 ~ 2:07 am

i'd have two stwand by butch on thwis wone. excuse me fwor bweing unproper bwut swue thwat****** fwor harassment. gwet her where it hurts thwe most

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girlysteve

Posted April 25th, 2011 ~ 2:42 pm

Hi again everyone.

Thanks for all your advice but Lisa still won't leave me alone. She has even got her friend Amanda to bully me now. There is a gay club close to where I live that I like to visit. The other night when I left to walk home they both started to follow me. They both started to verbally humiliate me by saying things like 'Did you pull tonight pansy boy?' and 'Shall we have a bit of fun with gaysteve, although he won't be able to get it up with girls'.

I turned around and told them to leave me alone. They could see that I was almost crying but they cornered me and wouldn't let me go. Amanda said 'Come on Lisa lets teach gay steve a lesson'. Lisa said 'I'm the strongest here, I'll hold him down and you can get his pansy cock out'. I was helpless to resist. Amanda started to suck me off. When I couldn't get hard she started to get really annoyed. 'If you don't cum soon gayboy you will get the hiding of your life!'. All I could do was think of masculine men and I imagined that Lisa and Amanda were 2 men. It worked. I managed to shoot my load but when I Lisa and Amanda swapped places and made me do it again.

Once they had finished with me they took all my money and left me crying in the alley. They are such a couple of bitches. I'm scared to go out alone now as Lisa and Amanda know that they have the beating of me.

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baby_anna

Posted April 25th, 2011 ~ 11:40 pm

This is rape by any definition. You NEED to go to the police, it will be the best thing you have ever done for yourself.

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SissyMichele

Posted May 3rd, 2011 ~ 10:21 pm

Hehe you need to get a boyfriend or if have one bring him over to where she can see both of you and make out right in front of her lol. Realy go at it lol. GL hope things work out for ya sweetie. BIG HUGS!!!!

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sissyboy0000

Posted May 4th, 2011 ~ 12:07 am

Thats horrible!!! No one should be forced to go through that. I wish I was there with you then I could show those bitches that harassment is not tolerated in the modern world. The only suggestions I can give is do not go out alone at night, stay away from those bitches, also call the cops. What those two did is illeagl and in no way do they have an excusse for what they did. Hun I hope life gets better for you. It looks like you cant convince this girl to leave you alone so I think the only thing you can do is stay away from her. Dont give in to these two pea brain idiots. Stay who you are and love who you love.*BIG hugs and kisses*

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Kamarill

Posted May 5th, 2011 ~ 12:29 pm

Here's some honest advice: GET HELP.

Contact your local police. You need to seek immediate help from someone. You have been suffering sexual harassment and now sexual assault, rape, and robbery. Be strong and CONTACT THE POLICE. Please do not hesitate to report such incidents to your local police. Too many times things like this are under reported and not taken as seriously as they are by people such as yourself.

Once more, PLEASE DO NOT HOLD BACK ON CONTACTING THE POLICE.

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Kamarill

Posted May 5th, 2011 ~ 12:29 pm

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Daddy's Girl

Posted May 5th, 2011 ~ 8:30 pm

Some people just don't listen. I'd suggest refusing to see or speak to her; don't give her any chance. If you're too nice, she'll probably think you're letting her in.

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cumbunny

Posted May 6th, 2011 ~ 5:27 am

its ok keep strong

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Sweetlilbabygirl

Posted May 30th, 2011 ~ 4:41 am

I'm not sure were you are from,,, it sounds kinda like maybe the UK? I could be wrong,,, but anyway,, over here in the states,, this situation can be handled easily with a restraining order,,, i'm sure other countries have something similar, then if she even comes within so many feet of you, you can have her arrested.
I agree with what the others have said,, go to your local police,,, for whatever reason she is doing this,, it's wrong
and if it is any consolation,,, it gets better,, someday you will find your niche where you are accepted, it may take something as dramatic as moving to a new location,,, but eventually you will find peace of mind and be surrounded by those who love and accept you

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Dru

Posted May 31st, 2011 ~ 5:44 pm

call the cops? pepper spray them? I think this is fake to be honest but if its not you need to do something about it and not ask for advice online.

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Sissynatalie6969

Posted August 5th, 2011 ~ 3:20 pm

thats too bad....

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ecchi1014

Posted August 5th, 2011 ~ 10:36 pm

Dood! Get them arrested, a restrainig order, whatever just DONT LET THEM NEAR YOU! Don't hold back, do everythhng in your power to make them PAY! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

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