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Mellsissy

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Posted on September 28th, 2013 ~ 5:07 pm

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I am married but have a problem. Everything has always been fine in my marriage. But she has a friend that she is talking to on the phone and IM messaging. I have no problem with her talking to other people but what I do have a problem with is that types of things she is talking to with this guy. They are sexting. What do I do??? Do I bring it up. Normally it would not be a problem. But she has changed in attitude toward a few things. I used to kiss her on the neck all the time but at the moment she keeps refusing. She loved that but all of a sudden doesn't want me too? Plus she loved to have sex but all of sudden doesn't want it anymore.

Help what do I do

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Baby Butch

Posted September 28th, 2013 ~ 8:54 pm

I can not tell by what you are saying that your wife may be unfaithful. If she is however I would collect as much evidence as possible without letting her know you are doing it.

I hope the problem is not as serious as it would appear. Look out for yourself and your bank account and assets. If this woman would commit adultry, then divorce her and let her new man take care of her.

Make sure you have the evidence first, courta usually don't award large sums of money to a wife who is divorced for adultry and being unfaithful. That said I hope if works out without going to this extent.

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Baby Butch

Posted September 28th, 2013 ~ 9:02 pm

You must be feeling emotionally hurt by all this, best wishes to you!

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Mellsissy

Posted September 29th, 2013 ~ 2:50 pm

So I couldn't wait. I had to unload last night. So I laid it out that I knew. She is mad but sees my point. I still Love my wife with all my heart. Now to just work on the relationship. Any advise would be awesome. She deleted her facebook account last night. I am afraid that I am losing her but all I know to do is keep telling her that I love her. I told her that we have never lied to each other. I asked her why she had to lie to me. She started off with the whole you wouldn't let me to which I replied I would have honestly but know hell no because she felt the need to lie to me so that means you are hiding something. I just hope that I can work this out this time. I lost my last wife to adultery. I am not losing this one. She is my world. If I lose her I lose everything. Unfortunately I do mean everything.

I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!! HELPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!! I CAN'T LOSE!!

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softypoor

Posted September 29th, 2013 ~ 4:53 pm

So sorry to hear this is your situation.

You need to have a serious discussion with her, perhaps consider couple counsellling to see if theres anything that can be resolved.

It takes two to tango, if she absoultely doesnt for whatever reason, at all; you cannot force her to love you back. But you need to establish if this is the case or not clearly.

I hope you do not do anything rash and remember to love and value yourself.

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Mellsissy

Posted September 29th, 2013 ~ 5:21 pm

Nothing physical ever happened. It was just sexting. I talked to her last night. She agreed and that it needed to stop. I contacted the dude she was talking to and told him to stop sexting. So the fight is on.

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sissybabydreams

Posted September 29th, 2013 ~ 5:51 pm

Hi,

Could be time for a change of phone for the other half. But possibly get a new one yourself at the same time. If it carries on after that, with a new number, then you know further help is needed.

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Baby Butch

Posted September 29th, 2013 ~ 8:57 pm

I am happy things are not as drastic as I first thought. Sexting is diffinately not adultry thank goodness. I hope you can repair the damages and it works out.

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Mellsissy

Posted September 30th, 2013 ~ 6:52 pm

To me sexting is adultery basically because a lot of people who sext given the chance would act it out. But everything seems to be going good at the moment. Things are still a little tense but otherwise they are good. I think I caught this early enough that nothing will become of it. Wishful thinking on my part. Not texting the guy like she used to so that I think is a good thing. He hasn't taken the hint yet still a couple of calls but otherwise everything seems to be going ok.

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