Im about to go shopping i need a sissy shoping list

Szuz

Posted on July 29th, 2009 ~ 10:51 pm

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Hello im about to go down to the shops soon and i was hopeing that someone could please give me a shopping list for a sissy that is just starting out and has nothing yet

Thanks Szuz

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Posted July 29th, 2009 ~ 11:30 pm

-Panties. Every sissy needs panties.
-Diapers. If you're a sissy baby, you should buy a pack. If not, at least buy some maxi pads.
-Stockings or pantyhose. Feel so good on your legs.

For make-up, you should get at the very least mascara, lipstick (red or pink, purple could also be acceptable), eyeshadow, eyeliner, and maybe some blush. Foundation or concealer is also handy.

That should be enough for now to start.

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CKgirl

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 12:04 am

Don't forget a purse to put all that in!! =)

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken!

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Szuz

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 12:13 am

i dont have the confidence to use a purse yet

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Szuz

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 1:30 am

Omg that sucked so much i was getting somany weird looks people wer even laughing i only managed to buy eye liner and lipstick
im gonna just buy things online now

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Dru

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 1:53 am

Sorry to hear that. They were probably laughing because they were jealous : ) Doesn't matter what they think. You were brave and should feel proud. Buying things in person is tough but you did it!!!

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CKgirl

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 3:02 am

Aw hun, thats awful. I'm sorry your trip went badly. I know telling you it
gets easier won't mean much right now, but it really does.

I don't know if you've told any one, but if you have a a gal pal that you can
do some of the shopping with the first several times, makes it much easier.

I still can't bring myself to shop for lingerie without a girlfriend. I ask
the questions and I'm clear with the sales person its for me, but with out
a girl there to "hold my hand" I can't bring myself to do it. Same problem
shopping for a dress. Skirts are about 50/50. Shoes, makeup, tops, I can do.
I can go to the salon by myself and get a set put on and colored. I can go
get a feminine cut and style, but for some reason I get too embarassed
when it comes to those two things.

So don't feel discouraged. Even those of us that have been at it while
can't do it alone. You showed some real bravery. You definitely get
an 'A' for effort. And, hey, you managed to buy two more items than
I did my first time out =P

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken!

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Szuz

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 3:14 am

thanks i wish i knew some girls that i could talk to and ask help , i have just moved to a new town so it is rly hard for me at the moment

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CKgirl

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 4:03 am

But doesn't Australia have beautiful, friendly women, with killer accents,
in bikinis and wetsuits every couple of feet? Or is that only in my dreams? =P

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken!

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Szuz

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 6:31 am

thats in gold coast, brisbane, sydney (on the beach there) and just mosy beach towns im in more of a beef tow the beef capital of australia

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Cuteypie_tiff

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 6:54 am

I was really nervous the first time I started buying girl things, I'm ashamed to say that I even stole some things so that I wouldn't have to go through the embarrassment at the register (I'm much better now though, I even went to a store yesterday and tried on a bunch of girl wigs with help from the man at the store).

Like CKgirl said, it does seem a lot easier if you have a gal pal with you, but I think one of the main things to keep in mind is that you will most likely never see the people at the store again, and if you do see them again on a repeat visit or something does it really matter what they think? It's not like they are in your family or one of your friends or something. The embarrassment is only temporary, but imagine how much fun you will have with your new clothes and makeup when you get home!

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Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 11:10 am

I actually find lingerie is the easiest thing in the world to buy. Just say it's your girlfriend's birthday if anyone asks. If they don't, they probably just assume that anyway. As long as you get it from a lingerie place. If you get it from Wal-mart or something people would probably just assume you're cheap.

I still sometimes have a hard time buying make-up too, not sure why, it's kinda weird. That and outer wear. I find lingerie is common enough for a guy to get his girlfriend, but like, skirts and tops aren't really. For example, I still can't bring myself to go into an exclusively women's clothing store unless it's just lingerie, but if there is a store with men's and women's clothing, I just hide in the men's section and regroup until I'm ready to venture back into the women's side.

I don't know if you live alone or at home, but if you live with your parents or something, watch out for packages you order online. They can sometimes make it blatantly obvious on the customs form as to what is inside even if you specify "ship discreetly".

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Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 11:13 am

I think one of the main things to keep in mind is that you will most likely never see the people at the store again, and if you do see them again on a repeat visit or something does it really matter what they think? It's not like they are in your family or one of your friends or something. The embarrassment is only temporary, but imagine how much fun you will have with your new clothes and makeup when you get home!

Very true. You will probably never see them again anyway. Plus the benefit to negatives. 5 minutes of being embarrassed vs. more than that in pleasure later.

The other thing that I find helps is realizing that they don't know you are buying it because you're a sissy. You could be buying it for a costume party, or whatever. If anything, they may guess something, but they'll probably never know for sure.

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daddysgirl80

Posted July 30th, 2009 ~ 4:52 pm

I used to work in a call center that handled customer service for several women's clothing and shoe companies, and we LOVED it when men/cds/tvs/tgs/so on called in to order things. Honestly! Yes, sometimes we laughed--but it was NOT because we were making fun, it was because we honestly loved helping and had so much fun talking with those folks! The normal sales were so dreary sometimes. Helping someone out with feminization, talking them through their nervousness, hearing their stories, was just so enjoyable!

The one thing we didn't like was when customers tried to make those conversations sexual, or just called in over and over to have us talk to them but never ordered anything, so please do avoid that...imagine if you were at work and your boss was watching and someone did that to you (at a call center, every call is recorded, so your boss could be "watching" at any time; at a department store there are security cameras, so same thing).

But I'm betting that it's about the same anywhere, really--a lot of those smiles and giggles--from salespeople or from the general public--are in happiness that you have the courage to do something different, and not meant to make fun of you.

And the ones that ARE because the people are mean...well, you should just ignore them, because they are narrow-minded buttfaces.

And I'm a genetic girl who likes to be a little girl...and I still have things that are hard to buy: pacifiers and diapers! But I get out there and do it, even if it is hard, because it makes me so happy to have them.

Good luck, sweetie!!!

Manda

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ax1234

Posted August 18th, 2009 ~ 3:08 am

i always go to a store thats a few miles from where i live and do all ym shopping there so i wonr run into anybody or have to go back there agian

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DSummer

Posted August 20th, 2009 ~ 4:55 am

Hm, I didn't realize people had any problems with this. I guess I'm just blessed in the sense that when I want something (panties, panties and panties), I just told my wife, and we'd go shopping together.

The best thing is definitely to make friends... find people with a common interest, and enjoy each others company. Yeah, I realize not everyone can have the most amazing woman decide to marry them, but you can still find friends wherever you are that would more than readily step in and help you.

Again though, don't worry about the giggle and snickers you may hear... sometimes it's because people are amazed that you have the courage to do something like that... sometimes it's because they're talking about something else altogether different from you... sometimes they're not really laughing/snickering/giggling, but because you're nervous, things are amplified, real or imagined by your subconscious. relax, enjoy, and live.

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Posted August 20th, 2009 ~ 11:14 am

Again though, don't worry about the giggle and snickers you may hear... sometimes it's because people are amazed that you have the courage to do something like that... sometimes it's because they're talking about something else altogether different from you... sometimes they're not really laughing/snickering/giggling, but because you're nervous, things are amplified, real or imagined by your subconscious. relax, enjoy, and live.

The last point I think primarily. Which is why whenever I go shopping for stuff like that, I always just ignore everyone around me and pretend they aren't there. If I don't acknowledge nobody is there, nobody can affect me.

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GipsyPrincess

Posted March 3rd, 2010 ~ 5:18 am

Way to go girl You Did it ! Sorry your 1st trip was not so great Szuz but that dosent take away the very very brave thing you did sweetie. Going alone can be tough but you did it Big big hugss, build up your courage and give it another go hunni. Who knows you just might get a compliment or two on your choices. Wouldnt that be wonderful? Adding my support and congradulations to you dear.

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