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CUTE BECKY

Posted on August 21st, 2012 ~ 2:59 am

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well....the gender identity clinic after doing months of therapy to find underlining mental health issues i have had a waiting time for the first appointment and after the first appointment,,, i was not happy... the second appointment was with a second doctor.... again... i wasn't happy... i made a complaint about the system... both doctors asked me the exact same questions as each other did and all the questions asked were in the assessment report from the therapist.
in the time it takes for the next appointment of just sitting around watching time pass bye... all the blood tests were done and all came back fine.
i was starting lazer therapy with my fave first.
omg... that totally hurt like hell but kinda got better as time went by.
i have had 5 treatments of lazer therapy and i can feel the difference....
its not tottaly gone but its an improvement.
after putting in a complaint to PALS about what i was witnessing at charring cross.... i got a vaig ...nothing explained ... still in the dark as to what's going on and why... no feed back other than i have complex issues.... well... i have never heard such sh1t....
they never went into details as to what the issues are....
they are going to give me the documents i asked for the next time i see them and i guess they will not give me the hormone eather.... this is beginning to get on my tits some what after all the time working with them and seeing nothing but criticism...
the web site was rubbish for info.
i have had toroute around for good genuine information and resorses.
i really should have gone private as the NHS has been ridicules .
the criteria from changing name and documents to living full time and all the rest of it is all done and documented but the employment issue is still an issue.
im still unemployed.
if i was employed... i would not be under the NHS but going private
well... the homophobia and trans phobia in north London has been shuddering ridicules .
the black community have been as unforgivable as ever.... so darn right nastiness...
the riots and respect for each other is non existent... its give them a millameter and you are dun for.
i will demand hormones befor christmas.
timeis flowing by and all i see is doctors prodding and pking... timefoe some action.

hi sweeties.
have a wonderful day and please read my posts and it would be very nice if you could write a comment of how it was for you

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zoey3baby

Posted August 28th, 2012 ~ 4:20 am

I am sorry to hear u r having a rough time of it Becky, it doesn't fill me with confidence, as I have just been refured to a gender disorder clinic. I don't know if its the same one as I am in Kent? But its taken a year just for me to get put on to people who know what it is I'm dealing with. I had psychotherapy and been under a access team and its obvious that I have got to either live life as a girl or don't live at all. its hard for me as I only realised transgender by trauma a breakdown of great proportion switched a dormant male female switch from m to f and at the age of 35 I had over night turned into a girl in my mind with the same body.I have lost everything. my partner ,son,house,friends,family,career,mind,myself.......it is a mirical I still breath so hearing what u said about the help if you call it that has really made me nervous about it all I find it hard to go outside let alone London I have noone to help me to feel ok to go out. I have tried to but am ridiculed I am 6.5 with great big hands and feet and I ain't fooling no one but its not yhey ridicule or what's said that scares me its my reaction I have a ball of hate in me a grudge which I am not used to bearing but the trauma which caused this was other peoples self presivation in a corporate world stabbed in the back and knocked financially which led to me realising this I will keep eye see if u post again and also let u know how I get know zoey3baby Xxx

well....the gender identity clinic after doing months of therapy to find underlining mental health issues i have had a waiting time for the first appointment and after the first appointment,,, i was not happy... the second appointment was with a second doctor.... again... i wasn't happy... i made a complaint about the system... both doctors asked me the exact same questions as each other did and all the questions asked were in the assessment report from the therapist.
in the time it takes for the next appointment of just sitting around watching time pass bye... all the blood tests were done and all came back fine.
i was starting lazer therapy with my fave first.
omg... that totally hurt like hell but kinda got better as time went by.
i have had 5 treatments of lazer therapy and i can feel the difference....
its not tottaly gone but its an improvement.
after putting in a complaint to PALS about what i was witnessing at charring cross.... i got a vaig ...nothing explained ... still in the dark as to what's going on and why... no feed back other than i have complex issues.... well... i have never heard such sh1t....
they never went into details as to what the issues are....
they are going to give me the documents i asked for the next time i see them and i guess they will not give me the hormone eather.... this is beginning to get on my tits some what after all the time working with them and seeing nothing but criticism...
the web site was rubbish for info.
i have had toroute around for good genuine information and resorses.
i really should have gone private as the NHS has been ridicules .
the criteria from changing name and documents to living full time and all the rest of it is all done and documented but the employment issue is still an issue.
im still unemployed.
if i was employed... i would not be under the NHS but going private
well... the homophobia and trans phobia in north London has been shuddering ridicules .
the black community have been as unforgivable as ever.... so darn right nastiness...
the riots and respect for each other is non existent... its give them a millameter and you are dun for.
i will demand hormones befor christmas.
timeis flowing by and all i see is doctors prodding and pking... timefoe some action.

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CUTE BECKY

Posted June 8th, 2015 ~ 12:35 am

since 2012 when i wrote this has had some real differences made.
i have now been discharged awaiting an appointment for reassignment.
the docs are hard and not very understanding and to answer all the questions they have ...you don't really know if its good or bad ...just put into your minutes and thats it.
im now employed and have hormones.
i have seen the changes but feel the changes will be slow and crap... but i have tiny widw breasts like some teen ager but think time will not change that much.
darn it i think im too late.
they say your never to old to start
yes thats true
and you are too late if you don't wake up early enough to get all the make up and special bits and peaces out to get ready for the day to be as passable as possible that early hormones would have saved you from.
im sad.... really sad...
i want to wake up and find this was all a nightmare and find i see myself in the mirror and not this.
i find girls still fancy me as a male... fukn hell....
i find blokes find me as male and always with an oops ...sorry luv.
grrrrr.....
now im going to the surgeon... i find in my mid... fix me or put me under.
is this really going to solve all my issues or am i just trying to repair an irreparable situation im in.
i hope you find the clinic better than i did.
it was not nice... but after 5 years .... i feel none the better but i have hormones which is what i set out to do so i got that done...so i think its a win.
trying to keep on the bright side that i will find peace eventually...

hi sweeties.
have a wonderful day and please read my posts and it would be very nice if you could write a comment of how it was for you

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sissiepansi

Posted February 8th, 2016 ~ 2:26 am

@ CUTE BECKY

At least you have NHS however homophobic and transphobic they may be.. in the US its 1000x worse.. the cost is astronomical and TS people are cash cows for the Rx/MD capitalist machine .
Either that or we are rejected/ejected/marginalised/discarded human refuse.
Whomever you are, the path to TS is ROUGH and requires strength beyond measure. If you get as far as you have, Blessings... if not do not give up

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