Dressing arouses me

cd404

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Posted on May 8th, 2010 ~ 9:45 am

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Hi Girls,
Can anyone explain to me why I get so turned on by dressing in girls things?
Panties, bra, tights anything. If I know its girls it just turns me on, why?
Another thing although I am turned on I don't always have a hard on, but yet I am so excited.
I leak pre cum from the start, it makes such a mess! Like I said I don't have to be hard but still I leak
It makes a mess of whatever I wear, any advice?
I have got to the stage that I really would love to have sex with other *girls* but I am not gay!!
These really are confusing times! Thank you for listening.
Love rebecca
Xxy

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Dru

Posted May 8th, 2010 ~ 1:17 pm

lol I just offered this as a suggestion for a different question for different reasons but maybe using a pad or panty liner would be useful for you. That way less messes and you won't have to worry about possibly ruining your panties.

As far as why you get excited and if you are gay or not I don't think dressing really has anything to do with sexuality but it often is maybe loosely associated and wrongfully assumed to mean someone is gay but not true a lot of the time. I am not sure what my sexuality is at the moment really but I know I can't really have sex with females without being dressed. My lil thing down there just doesn't get excited enough. I'm sorta assuming that sex with males though I won't need any extra motivation but not sure about that one yet till it happens.

umm maybe that was too much information... but I was trying to get at... it might take some experimenting for ya to figure out what works for you =D

Take care

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cd404

Posted May 9th, 2010 ~ 10:37 pm

Thanks Drew, I will try the panty liner. Regarding the other matter, there is a line I haven't crossed yet, I fantasize about it but can't get the courage to do it!! Have you ever thought about sex with a fellow *girl* dressed of course?

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Sis_C

Posted May 10th, 2010 ~ 6:05 pm

I have been thinking about this for awhile, and while I can not speak for every one, for myself it is more of a link between girls and their clothes. It is deeper than that as well, as there is this undertone, that I want to BE a girl, not just dress like one. To explain that is impossible, I think that for me, some association between female clothes and sexual pleasure happened in my brain, and now I associate the sexy clothes with sexual pleasure. Although wearing female clothes for me is not all about the sexual pleasure, I think that is just one of a few different reasons, but since we humans are drive by sexuality, I feel that sexual pleasure is a huge part of it. For me there is this undertone I spoke of earlier that is more that just for the sexiness of it, Its to reinforce the idea of being a girl while dressed, it makes you feel feminine, therefor makes you feel like the girl you want to be deep inside. For me I like sweet girly clothes, very pink and lacey if possible, this is because the more girly IT is the more girly I AM when I wear them. Of course this makes for a confusing time, but having come to accept this as a major part of me, has made it less confusing, as I stopped fighting it, I still hide it, but I no longer try to fight it, I am who I am, who ever that ends up being. At this point I am male and I am female, I am both, and they both are fighting for control of me, the male side has won so far, but that is because of the chains society has put on me, barring me from exploring the other side, but now, since I have stopped fighting it, it remains to be seen which side wins out in the future.

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cd404

Posted May 13th, 2010 ~ 9:03 am

Yes yes, I agree with everything you say. I do feel like a girl when dressed, and yes the more girlie the clothes the more gitlie I feel.
It is so nice talking to people who feel the same way, I did think I was a bit of a freak!!
Thank you
xxy

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catty0320

Posted May 14th, 2010 ~ 4:16 am

you are never a freak, unless you are F-ing dead bodies, or prepubescent children. Anything other than that is not being a freak, It is just not the social norm, however, 100 years ago, even 50 years ago, women couldn't drink in public, so things change.

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prissysissytanya

Posted May 14th, 2010 ~ 5:42 pm

I am the same op, I get very turned on by ultra femenine clothes, for me it's all about pinks, sheerness, frills and stretch lace. I adore the french maid / little girl look with stockings and suspenders. All I have to do is think about panties and that gets me going.

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cd404

Posted May 14th, 2010 ~ 6:25 pm

Me too, I am starting to fantasise more about being dressed and making out with another "girl"

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Dru

Posted May 16th, 2010 ~ 2:38 am

Oh sorry I am a bit dense I guess and didn't pick up on the "girl" reference. Yah I would like that I am sure not that I want anyone here that I chat with to think I am coming on to ya But why not a girl or "girl" doesn't matter to me as far as making out goes or maybe even more just would depend on the individual

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cd404

Posted May 16th, 2010 ~ 10:31 pm

yes Drew, I understand.

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SissyJessy

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 3:33 am

Me too, I am starting to fantasise more about being dressed and making out with another "girl"

I understand how you feel, I know when I first came to this site I was very inexperienced and had really no idea what I liked. I just had a small diaper fetish and I wanted to see how big it really was. After talking with some lovely sissies and abs, I learned more about myself and got into being a sissy as well as an ab. Soon enough I learned I was bisexual (well I figured and then tried it and well that kind of answered that question ^_^). I remember it started with some fun play with another "girl", then some fantasies, and then well I realized it was a part of me.
However, just because you have a fantasy with being with another "girl", doesn't mean your gay. At best it means your just curious about it and considering this site, it makes perfect sense you had a thought or two about it. Honestly the best advice I could give would not to deny it, but not to blindly accept it either. If you feel willing, roleplay with another sissy in that way, see what happens. The worst thing is that you realize it was just a phase or curiosity and all you did was play it out online, so it doesn't mean much. The other case is that you might find you enjoy it and want to try it again, maybe one day if your ready in real life.
The best part of this site is that you can explore yourself in an accepting nature without being judged and if you find that you don't like it, it doesn't matter and you just get to move.

Sorry if it doesn't really help much, but thats about all I got >

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cd404

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 5:41 am

Thanks Jessy, I would love to hear more about your experiences with other girls
I'm sat here typing this and I feel I am missing out, I want to try with another girl I know that
How do I find that special girl?
Rebecca
Xx

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ashie

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 6:22 am

as far as finding that "special girl", there is no "tried and true" method. The only "scientific" approach i can give you, is research has shown that males have some sort of odd brain thing to them where they will honestly "love at first site", to the point of some guys actually knowing on the spot, right when they meet a girl that its the one they will/want to marry (and no im not referring to the "shallow" aspect of it, there has been actual research to the "soulmate" idea, and they turned out with this, a decent amount of males just "know")

If you go by that theory, you could just go around meeting as many girls as possible and see if you feel anything (just meeting a large number of girls, even without that theory would help, just so youd have a larger "sample" pool to go by)

As far as sexuality as a whole goes? dont even bother worrying about it, those are just societal terms for "clarity". i went my whole life fairly certain i was "straight" (or lesbian, depending on your view of it), now the person i am honestly in love with, happens to have a pen0r, to which i say "so what?". I actually spent a day trying to honestly "classify" myself. I hit every single sexual preference, and i land on "straight" twice.

tl;dr version
Dont worry about identifying as any particular "preference" seeing as VERY few people are actually 100% straight or 100% gay, most people are shades of gray. Do what makes you happy, like who you want to, and let other people figure it out if they really care enough.

"I'm...all alone. But I'm doing my best... I'll be ok without you, Sis. I'll be able to take care of myself." ~Squall

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cd404

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 5:13 pm

Thanks for all the comments, they really help
xx

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SissyJessy

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 5:15 pm

Best advice I could give is try online, since its pretty hard to find these lovely "girls" in real life, due to most hide their true nature, at least that is what I plan to do. Online also gives a great opportunity to learn about your "lady friend's" personality before trying anything in real life. With webcams, when your ready of course, it makes it even easier to do face-to-face talking online.
Glad I could help sweetie <3
Feel free to talk with me anytime if you feel comfortable doing so ^_^