Changing

Jubille64567

Posted on May 25th, 2010 ~ 3:19 pm

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Ever since I started to accepted the fact that I was bi-sexual, I noticed myself changing alot. I have a boyfriend now and I noticed over the past few months I have become more girly, like I actually like flower how they look and smell, I like wearing dresses(I always kind of did), I act more femmenate, and I do cry alot more(its usually only when I'm alone though, and it's been really bothering me. Back when I was in denialI was actually a homofo, I didnt hate gays I was just afarid of them a little bit basically the way flaming people talked kind of spooked me and made me feel uncomfortable I dont know why it did. Once I decided to stop lying to myself I have become more and more effemenate I know I cant help the way I am but I still feel ashamed of it I feel ashamed of it every day and its a big burden to bear I dont know what to do anymore.

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Marcie_me

Posted May 26th, 2010 ~ 11:16 am

Sweetie, I can tell you from my own life experience, what you feel right now is completely normal. I'm 38 and still feel like you do from time to time (I'm transgender) . Try to remember that you are who you are because it's how you where born. It's not something to be afraid or ashamed of even though it's understandable why you do feel that way.

It's good that you have a boyfriend to talk to. Accept yourself and feelings and embrace them. Be comfortable with who you are. Be yourself whenever you feel safe in doing so and never regret doing it. The more comfortable you feel about yourself the better you will feel about being yourself.

There is nothing wrong with being Bi, gay, or any other label our society has snickered us with because it's just that, a sticker. The label doesn't define you only you can do that.

Read the personal stories here at SK and see how similar we all are. It's not coincidence that we all are the way we are. Being us certainly isn't some random chance event. Your not alone in this journey, we all are on it with you.

Hope this helps,
Marcie

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Jubille64567

Posted May 27th, 2010 ~ 4:07 am

Thanks alot, I've just been really confused lately. Is there any special section on here where people tell their stories cause looking at those would probably help. Thanks for your advice too it's nice to know that I'm not alone.

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Marcie_me

Posted May 27th, 2010 ~ 11:36 am

Yeah, the board "all about me" usually has the life stories in it. Sometes the "hello there" board does also.

Glad I helped you. Smiles,
Marcie

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Marcie_me

Posted May 27th, 2010 ~ 11:36 am

Yeah, the board "all about me" usually has the life stories in it. Sometes the "hello there" board does also.

Glad I helped you. Smiles,
Marcie

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Jubille64567

Posted May 27th, 2010 ~ 9:33 pm

(lol you double-posted) yeah I should go check that out. Thanks again, you're advice was very insightful and I don't feel quite as bad anymore.

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Marcie_me

Posted May 27th, 2010 ~ 11:36 pm

Glad to hear it. I've had similar problems and this site has been a great support both emotionally as well as socially. You'll find it really helpful here to.

Be yourself, be happy, be beautiful,
Marcie

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