0 – Zero means zero
1 – I don’t want to, but wouldn’t object
2 – I don’t care either way
3 – Occasionally
4 – Regularly
5 – All the time!
Age Play
YES 4
Anal Plugs (small)
Yes 3
Anal Plugs (large)
Maybe 1
Anal Plug (public under clothes)
Yes 3 vibes are fun too.
Ball Stretching
No 0
Bathroom use control
Yes 4
Beating (soft)
No 0
Beating (hard)
No 0
Blindfolding
Yes 2
Breast/chest bondage
Yes 2
Bondage (light)
Yes 1
Bondage (heavy)
No 0
Bondage (multi-day)
No 0
Bondage (public under clothing)
Maybe 2
Caning
No 0
Chains
Maybe 1
Chastity belts
Yes 2
Chores (domestic service)
Yes 1
Clothespins
NO 0
Cock rings/straps
No 0
Cock worship
No 0
Collars (worn in private)
Yes 1
Collars (worn in public)
No 0
Corsets (wearing casually)
Yes 1
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Yes 1
Cuffs (leather)
Yes 2
Cuffs (metal)
No 0
Diapers (wearing)
Yes 5
Diapers (wetting)
Yes 5
Diapers (soiling)
Yes 4 no choice sometimes
Dildos
Yes 3
Enemas (for cleansing)
Yes 5
Enemas ( retention/punishment) Yes 5
Enforced chastity
Yes 2
Erotic Dance (for audience)
Maybe 1
Exhibitionism (friends)
No 0
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Yes 1
Following orders
Yes 2
Forced bedwetting
Yes 5
forced dressing
Yes 3 only in private
Forced homosexuality
No 0
Forced heterosexuality
No 0
Forced masturbation
No 1
Forced nudity (private)
No 2
Forced nudity (around others)
No 1
Full head hoods
No 0
Gags (cloth)
No 0
Gags (inflatable)
No 1
Gags (phallic)
No 1
Gags (rubber)
No 0
Gags (tape)
No 0
Hair brush spankings
Yes 5
Hand Jobs (giving)
No 0
Hand Jobs (receiving)
Maybe 2
Harems (serving w/other subs) NO 0
Harnessing (leather)
Yes 1
Harnessing (rope)
No 0
Having food chosen for you
Maybe 1
Having clothing chosen for you
Yes 3 private only
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Yes 3
Head (rcv fellation/cunnilingus)
Yes 5
High Heel Wearing
No 0
High Heel Worship
No 1
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) NO 1
Hoods
No 0
Hot waxing
No 0
Housework (doing)
Yes 2
Humiliation (private)
Yes 3
Humiliation (public)
No 1
Ice cubes
Yes 3
Immobilization
Yes 2
Infantilism
Yes 5
Initiation rites
No 0
Leather Clothing
No 0
Lingerie (wearing)
Yes 3
Manacles and Irons
No 0
Modeling for erotic photos
Yes 3
Mummification
No 0
Nipple clamps
Yes 1
Nipple weights
No 0
Orgasm denial
Yes 3
Orgasm control
Yes 3
Outdoor scenes
Yes 4
Pain (severe)
No 0
Pain (mild)
Maybe 1
Public exposure
No 1 I hide my nappies well!
Pussy/cock whipping
No 0
Pussy worship
Yes 1
Riding crops
Yes 1
Restrictive rules on behavior
Yes 3
Saran wrap
Maybe 1
Sensory deprivation
No 0
Serving
Yes 2
Serving as art
Yes 2
Serving as ashtray
No 0
Serving as furniture
No 0
Serving as a maid
Yes 2
Serving as a toilet (urine)
No 0
Serving as a toilet (feces)
No 0
Serving as waitress/waiter
Yes 3
Serving orally (sexual)
Yes 3
Serving other Doms (supervised)
Yes 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised)
No 0
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Yes 1
Shaving (body hair)
Yes 5
Shaving (head hair)
No 0
Sleep deprivation
No 0
Sleep sacks
Maybe 1
Slutty clothing (private)
Yes 5
Slutty clothing (public)
Maybe 1
Spandex clothing
Yes 2
Spanking
Yes 4 Mommy knows best.
Speech restrictions (when/what)
Yes 3
Spreader bars
Yes 3
Standing in corner
Yes 1
Straight jackets
Maybe 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Yes 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Yes 5
Strapping (full body beating)
No 0
Suspension (upright)
Yes 1
Suspension (inverted)
No 0
Swallowing feces
Hell no 0
Swallowing semen
Yes 1
. Swallowing urine
No 0
Swapping (with one other couple)
Yes 1
Swinging (multiple couples)
Maybe 1
Tampon training (in ass)
Yes 2
Vibrator on genitals
Yes 5
Video (watching others)
Yes 3
Video (recordings of you)
No, but photos Yes
Waxing (hair removal)
Yes 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Yes 2
Whipping
Yes 5 Mommy knows best duh
Wooden paddles
Yes 2
a new me teehee
