Its ok to be a sissy and not be into ABDL.  Some sissys are just too old for them. Some just love dressing up. Its took me a long time to figure out just what kind of sissy I am. When I finally realised that you don't have to fall into any particular group.  If you wanna be a sissy maid, be a sissy maid. If you wanna be a sissy baby, be a sissy baby. As long as you're happy,  be whatever sissy you wanna be!