i have two sides to me. one side of me is a mommy, the other side of me is a 3-7 year old little girl. i am new to all of this and have been trying to find what fits me best. also i would like to know what others think on this matter. i find that when i am lil lilly it isnt a sexual thing for me. when i am mommy lilly it isnt a sexual thing for me or the "lil girl or boy" i care for. the only sexual part is when mommy and daddy are alone. are there any others who feel this way? are there any children who need a mommy? or any moms or dads who would like to spend time with a lil girl? these are just some of the things im contimplating. feel free to make any comments you wish reguarding these matters.