Why do u like being a sissy
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wittle_bwittany
just cause its fun. is that not enough?
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sissycam
i am just curious why other people want to be a sissy
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Dru
I like it because .... umm I guess its hard to answer. I just do. It just feels right and its fun. I like acting like a "sissy" as you call it but I just think of it as being me and doing what I enjoy. I had been doing and having feelings that are normal for a lot of people here without ever knowing anyone else felt the same way I did so meeting others here has been awesome. I get to have fun and share with other people that understand and like a lot of the same things I do 
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BunnyBoy
I've been trying to think of how to answer this question but I keep getting writer's block - or sissy's block.
I only dress in sissy outfits in private - that's just fetish fun - but I want to dress and act in a more androgynous way in public. I guess I'm only a part-time sissy!

I want to be sexually attractive to both males and females and I want to be beautiful and be the center of attention.
When I was a teenager I was sometimes mistaken for a girl even though I deliberately wore masculine scruffy clothes because I felt ashamed of looking feminine... what a waste! I guess I'm lucky because I still look younger than I am so there is still time for me to recapture something of what I missed.
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littlegirl_inside


 Just wondering why people wnat to be sissies. if there is already a chat like this please delete this one.  




Well for me it's not a choice, I am a sissy, I was born a sissy. But I love being a sissy, dressing as a little girl, being a little girl is who I really am, how I am most happy. I love to play with my dollies, watch Disney films, play games etc. Everything about being a little girl is just so much fun!!

But as I say being a sissy, it's not a choice, I am a sissy no matter what I wear, no matter what I do.
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BunnyBoy


 Well for me it's not a choice, I am a sissy, I was born a sissy. But I love being a sissy, dressing as a little girl, being a little girl is who I really am, how I am most happy. I love to play with my dollies, watch Disney films, play games etc. Everything about being a little girl is just so much fun!!

But as I say being a sissy, it's not a choice, I am a sissy no matter what I wear, no matter what I do.  




That is so it! I want to be free to be myself too.  
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BabyNiki
I dont think anyone wants to be a sissy, just like i dont think anyone wants to gay. Obviously there are exceptions, but on the whole, anything that can be insulted, or make you look less of a person, you try to avoid.

I didnt want to enjoy pink messy diapers, humiliated beyond belief while a really hot woman "takes care" of me. I want to be normal, but I just have to accept this is who I am... Like i have to accept that I was born in the wrong gender...

I want to act like a sissy because I am one, whether i like it or not. I dont know how right this is, but I think thats the reason why so many of us are not happy with life. Its horrible to think about...
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SuzieBrave
I dont REALLY want to be a girl, to me its just a mind vacation i take every now and then. Its exciting to explore sexuality from a whole new perspective. I could write an whole essay about this, but here are my motives in short:

-curiosity
-diversion
-personal stress: its just sth I do on weekends for distraction
-I like to get the attention a beautiful girl deserves

 
Now theres another thing, that I really appreciate about being a sissy: I DO THINK THAT I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! Now that really is something, isnt it?

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wittle_bwittany
 
Now theres another thing, that I really appreciate about being a sissy: I DO THINK THAT I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! Now that really is something, isnt it?

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 I TOTALLY AGREE!!!  being a sissy/CD has taught me SO much about girls. why there so emotional, some of the reasons there stressed out so much, i finally understand why they love shoes so much, and a lot more.

one thing i cant figure out is why any girl would hate dresses. most of the girls i know despise them, and i'll never know why. they have the privilege of wear cute stuff like that when ever they want, and yet they dont. they just dont know what there missing.
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wittle_bwittany


 

 
Now theres another thing, that I really appreciate about being a sissy: I DO THINK THAT I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! Now that really is something, isnt it?

 




I TOTALLY AGREE!!! being a sissy/CD has taught me SO much about girls. why there so emotional, some of the reasons there stressed out so much, i finally understand why they love shoes so much, and a lot more.

one thing i cant figure out is why any girl would hate dresses. most of the girls i know despise them, and i'll never know why. they have the privilege of wear cute stuff like that when ever they want, and yet they dont. they just dont know what there missing.
i am brittany her royal puffiness!!!

im officially in love with the color pink.

*hugs and kisses for all*
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sissyjj
I just love to dress up in frilly pink satin with oodles of lace over stockings and petties! 
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RedHeadBunny


 Now theres another thing, that I really appreciate about being a sissy: I DO THINK THAT I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! Now that really is something, isnt it?  






 I TOTALLY AGREE!!! being a sissy/CD has taught me SO much about girls. why there so emotional, some of the reasons there stressed out so much, i finally understand why they love shoes so much, and a lot more.

one thing i cant figure out is why any girl would hate dresses. most of the girls i know despise them, and i'll never know why. they have the privilege of wear cute stuff like that when ever they want, and yet they dont. they just dont know what there missing.  




This is very interesting to me. (I apologize if this is off topic) As a female I am curious about the possible insights you both gained and why you think that happened. I would love for you both to elaborate.
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shilong
im was born a sissy, transgender or tg. that who im am. it like say are you born white, black and red. with that say. it has joy with nice clothes and pretty jewelry but it has it bad to. the hate of thous that thing you should be like them or there there god or godess say we should be like.

i will take the good with the bad. im more happy be who i am.
so that why like being a sissy.

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BabyNiki


 This is very interesting to me. (I apologize if this is off topic) As a female I am curious about the possible insights you both gained and why you think that happened. I would love for you both to elaborate.  




I think I'm the same.. I was shopping with a few female friends the other day and I was seeing clothes that were to DIE FOR! The girls that I was with picked them two, I was so happy that my choice matched theirs! I wish they were a bit more teasing towards me, I love it when they pretend the stuffs for me!

Its the same reason why some girls like guys clothes.
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littlemissalexis
I like wearing knee high stockings which isn't considered manly. I paint my toe nails because it lot better since nylons are see through. But I don't like the mark they left so I need to wear pantyhoses. But wearing pantyhoses works better with panties. And since bra and panties go hand and hand I need a bra. And it is kind of silly not stuffing it with something. Male tops don't hang as good as female dresses and tops with a stuff bras. And since male shoes are a little rough on nylon feet then heels are required. And since it is hard to take all this off the clothes to use the bathroom then diapers are sometimes required over panties. See I am not really a sissy just like knee high stockings. *giggles*

Really I think I just always love those frilly outfits the mothers forced their daughters to wear and wish I could be in one and pampered like they were.
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BabyNiki


 I like wearing knee high stockings which isn't considered manly. I paint my toe nails because it lot better since nylons are see through. But I don't like the mark they left so I need to wear pantyhoses. But wearing pantyhoses works better with panties. And since bra and panties go hand and hand I need a bra. And it is kind of silly not stuffing it with something. Male tops don't hang as good as female dresses and tops with a stuff bras. And since male shoes are a little rough on nylon feet then heels are required. And since it is hard to take all this off the clothes to use the bathroom then diapers are sometimes required over panties. See I am not really a sissy just like knee high stockings. *giggles*

Really I think I just always love those frilly outfits the mothers forced their daughters to wear and wish I could be in one and pampered like they were.  




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sissypissy
this is me all the way.

I like it because .... umm I guess its hard to answer. I just do. It just feels right and its fun. I like acting like a "sissy" as you call it but I just think of it as being me and doing what I enjoy. I had been doing and having feelings that are normal for a lot of people here without ever knowing anyone else felt the same way I did so meeting others here has been awesome. I get to have fun and share with other people that understand and like a lot of the same things I do 
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Pampers&Panties
I like it because it's an escape from every day life and i just love dressing up and being sissy
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 one thing i cant figure out is why any girl would hate dresses. most of the girls i know despise them, and i'll never know why. they have the privilege of wear cute stuff like that when ever they want, and yet they dont. they just dont know what there missing.  




I think many of them know what they are missing. I'm sure they had to wear dresses and such as little girls. Most boys probably say the same thing about us. "They don't know what they're missing with trucks & sports". But I'm sure we all do.

It's simply a matter of different strokes for different folks. We aren't all the same, we don't all like the same things.
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pullups4me
I like the comfort I feel when I wear the pink and soft clothing and the wonderful accessories that go along with it. I am so glad I was able to try on my sisters old dance uniforms, I had so much fun in them.
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_Davina_
As long as we're being honest here I guess I have to say that I love being a sissy because it makes me so damn excited and when that doesn't result in an ugly bulge in the front of my panties, at the very least, it results in a sticky mess back in the middle of my panty-liner.

It's a great distraction from the day t day chores of life and the fantasies it generates are awesome and never-ending.
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SuzieBrave
Besides from being a real life sissy I really like this place
because sometimes im too lazy to dress uo and shave and all that.
So I just go online and post a message or two and see what
you girls are up to.
 Also, everybody is sooo nice here. Not like on regular
blogs, where people get offensive. There are soo many rude,
bad-tempered and mean people out there. That makes me
soooooo sad!
 
Its really comforting to have this safe haven to just let
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wittle_bwittany


 This is very interesting to me. (I apologize if this is off topic) As a female I am curious about the possible insights you both gained and why you think that happened. I would love for you both to elaborate.  




well some of it is hard to explain.

i cant really explain how i figured out why there emotional. i guess being in a situation where i almost completely forgot the "macho, manly" ways that were drilled into my head all my life made me realize that things like crying arent really as bad as guys make them out to be. i got in touch with my emotions and it wasnt that bad. im kinda glad i did, not only do i understand women a lot more, but i understand myself better for it.

i figured out why there stressed out because of all the pressures of being a girl. the pressure to look good. the pressure do good in school.(which believe it or not is much harder on girls than guys.) pressure from friends to do or be what they want you too. lets not even get started in periods. its really not a fun world to live in, but it has its moments that make it worth wile.

girls love of shoes is kinda self explanatory, i think we all understand that.

i also understand why it takes so long for them to get ready to go somewhere. makeup and hair and everything really takes a wile to do right.

HOWEVER, there are a lot of things i havent figured out yet.

why do girls take there looks so seriously? every time i tell a girl she looks good her only reply is "no i dont, i look like ****." honestly? come on girls, prom night and weddings arent the only time your allowed to look good. you dont have to look your best to look pretty at all.

why must girls be so vindictive? if two guys get in a fight, chances are they'll be friends again a few minutes later. if two girls get in a fight, they hold grudges against one another forever. a perfect example is the movie "bride wars".

this one isnt really all bad but i'd still like to learn this. how are girls so crafty? if you make a girl mad, she comes up some of the best ways to get you back. not even the worlds greatest male serial killer can hold a candle to the craftyness of a well educated girl. "bride wars" is again, a great example of this. and i know girls that have come up with even better forms of revenge than the girls in the movie.
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clarisselovelace
This is a very good question.

I think for me it has something to do with how I've always felt about what excites me. It's a combination of the acts and the will to execute them. Also, I feel that sometimes it's an opportunity to put my masculinity down. As if it were a heavy backpack that I just set down for a few hours. Because for me I'm not at odds with what my true gender is. I know I'm a man. There are a multitude of normal manly things I like, like sex. I lead a normal manly life. I just like to play and pretend when I get the opportunity that I am a sissy. Most of this playing and pretending happens in my mind which is why I create stories and situations for my fantasies to play out. I've always had a very creative imagination. I feel like it's one of my greatest assets.

All that being said I do like to dress up. I like to wear panties. Sometimes I'll wear like 2-3 pairs on top of each other just to get the maximum effect when rubbing myself to get off in them. I also like to wear diapers every now and then. I fantasize about being forced to wear these things by a demanding yet loving woman. I remember one time when I was about 8 I walked past the nursery at church and I got a big whiff of that plastic and urine smell. All I wanted to do was go lay in one of the cribs and wet myself. One other time when I was six I remember convincing my friend (also 6) that we should make her little sister (age 4) wet her diapers in front of us. I guess I've just always sort of known what I like. Almost like I'm wired that way. This has made me much more sensitive to people who enjoy other sexualities. Who am I to judge when I'm wired the way I am?

Somewhat unrelated is my fascination with weight gain. I don't know why but I've always been excited by women who gain weight, especially when it's on purpose. This has had some cross over into my sissy/ab fantasies but mainly it is a separate fetish. There is just something terribly exciting about submitting to your own indulgent thoughts. By that I mean a woman who decides that she just wants to eat something so she does without any regard. While I'm not attracted to laziness per say. I am attracted to the results of laziness.

What is the funny part of all this? I'm very sensitive about my weight and moderately sensitive about my appearance. The only person who knows about my thoughts and desires is my wife. I plan to keep it that way. The reason why is that in my case none of what I'm doing extends beyond the bedroom. Plus, my friends and family would be shocked and un-supportive so why bother.
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Von
Most of me doesn't like it. Or at least doesn't want to. Otherwise, since I just discovered that I do like it - I've been thinking a lot about that.

I'm really not sure of much, but I think at the heart of it may be two things. One is humiliation. Fantasy humiliation, or controlled humiliation. A little girl is the antithesis of a big man. Dressing and acting like a girl, imagining being seen like that is presumably at least potentially humiliating (experienced as a rush or euphoria) From what I've read about humiliation fetishes (not much, but it made as much since as anything) they are basically the mind turning insecurities (such as not being masculine enough) into a pleasurable thing as a way to deal with them. The second factor is that I was somewhat effiminate as a child, but learned it wasn't acceptable (in my family, in my town). I learned to be masculine - to the point that it seems natural. To the point I'd nearly forgotten about that boy. So when I started wearing pretty little panties, I started to let go a little, and it just feels really pleasant. Maybe it's just like a sigh. Like taking your shoes off after a long day. Or taking a piss you've been holding a long time. Indulging something that you've been suppressing tends to feel good.

But if it sounds like I'm sure - I'm not. If I weren't worried about what society thought, I'd call it good clean fun and go on a shopping spree. However, it feels like it's evolving tomorrow I will have worn boxer shorts for a week. (okay a work week. It's a start. Or a period of denial.

Well see what happens.p
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