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JessicaTaylor

Posted on June 7th, 2011 ~ 10:33 am

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Hello! My actual name is Jason, but sometimes i'd much rather be Jessica

But anyhow, I've only recently started to embrace the side of me that wants to be the little girl I often am, however I know for sure that I am not gay!

I've noticed that there is a lot of homosexual-related topics on this website, and I completely understand that seeing as how most of us are really girls even though we were born with the opposite sex. I have no disrespect towards anyone that prefers the same (birth)sex. But I know for sure that I like girls, rather women, over boys or men. I also know that I'd rather be a girl, and I love to hear that I'm pretty or cute, and be treated like the little sissy girl I am

I'm really just a confused young (girl)man, who wants to understand him/herself. If there's anyone out there that can relate or help with the confusion, any advice would be very appreciated!

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littlegirl_inside

Posted June 7th, 2011 ~ 5:30 pm

Hi sweetie and welcome

Confusion is very common, it's all about finding who YOU are and what YOU are comfortable with, there are NO rules, except one - be happy!!

Yes there may seem a lot of "homosexual-related topics" as you put it, but believe me, many many sissies are straight and there are those that have 'fantasies' about being with a guy or another sissy who would consider themselves straight. It is so varied. The thing to remember is labels are for those who want to be labeled, just because one sissy likes one thing doesnt mean all sissies do. It's all about finding who you are, accepting who you are and enjoying who you are.

You may find as your sissiness grows, your outlook changes, or you may find it stays the same, never worry about it, never look to be something you are not, just be you and enjoy being you. Every sissy is unique and wonderfully so and so are you. Ebrace and shine!!

If you ever want to pm me, please feel free to do so x x x

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JessicaTaylor

Posted June 7th, 2011 ~ 8:04 pm

Haha I tried to be as politically correct as possible with "homosexual-related" topics

But thanks for the advice! I'm definitely a noobie to this whole scene, and the more I learn about it the better!

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SissyMichele

Posted June 8th, 2011 ~ 12:47 am

Hehe dont worry sweetie we all start somewhere glad you finily wish for yer sissy side to shine its a wonderful life we sissys live full of joy and happyness. I too am straight and still have a strong Fem and LG side tho I do like being manly as well. Its all about what makes you happy and how you wish to express that happyness. So express away and have fun here there are many diffrent types of sissys in this world and all are nothing alike you will find. They might have same intrerst tho. Well welcome to this lovely web site and enjoy yourself. BIG HUGS!!!

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Baby Butch

Posted June 8th, 2011 ~ 1:54 am

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Prissie

Posted June 8th, 2011 ~ 2:01 am

Hello! My actual name is Jason, but sometimes i'd much rather be Jessica

And my actual birth name is < xxxxx >

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JessicaTaylor

Posted June 8th, 2011 ~ 8:08 am

Really! Im happy i'm not the only one like this

Problem is, I'm so inexperienced in this side of me that I've never actually sought out any actual women's clothing! There's only one time I can remember trying and wearing girls clothes, and it was when I was a toddler. Other than that, I have worn diapers on and off since I was 19, and that's how I've kind of stumbled into wanting to be a sissy
I'm also pretty fem for the most part though. I mean I am a man, and do bond with other's and identify as such. But I also love and follow fashion trends, and I obsess about my appearance. I've always been the kind and caring type, and I'm naturally more submissive and shy, and I have a lot of other feminine interests and aspects to my personality. Girls always seem to notice this too! I was always kind of teased by girls in junior high and high school, and told that I was a "pretty boy" and "so cute". And over time I've grown to love and crave comments like those!

Lol anyhow I'm blabbing, I'm on this site to explore this side of me, any suggestions on how I should start? I'm guessing I should definitely start by getting a cute pair of panties, any suggestions about where?

Ps, what is young girl culture? It doesn't have anything to do with actual young girls does it? Because that would not be cool!

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Prissie

Posted June 8th, 2011 ~ 10:06 am

Dear Jessica:

By "young girl culture" I mean things like dolls, tea parties, and wearing clothes like ruffled panties and dresses like girls wore back in Queen Victoria's time with petticoats underneath. For example I have two dolls, which I've named Aurora and Kiki, by my bedside when I sleep. And no, it does not have anything to do with actual children. I hope I've cleared up any misunderstanding.

Now about where to find panties, et cetera: Try any department store, like Khol's or J.C. Penney. Look in the lingerie area. If you're around 155 lb. or so in real life, chances are Medium panties will fit you. And too, you might find delightful things to try on at your nearest Salvation Army store. Right now I'm wearing a skirt and top purchased from a S.A. store.

Best wishes in finding groovy things to put on, starting with panties!

Prissie

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