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PG 13 A mini bio

babytotal

A short run down on my way of thinking towards ab and sissy play

Posted on December 28th, 2016 ~ 8:34 pm

So I thought it was time that I actually fill some of this out. And figured a good starting point would be my way of thinking about kink and in particular the kinks on this website.
Im a straight sub male with a particular draw towards humiliation and degradation, which leads me to ab and sissy play. I'm not an adult baby, I have no draw to behaving as a baby, in terms of playing with toys, colouring in etc. For me it is more of a sexual power exchange, being dressed like a sissy or a baby is humiliating and degrading and god does it turn me on.
It wasn't something I had ever considered before my first online domme, a wonderful American lady who slowly corrupted and conditioned me to connect age play to sex so strongly it's still with me 8 years later and has only grown. I find myself craving having someone there to belittle me, to reduce my self worth through outfits and forced behaviour till I'm shaking and whimpering and desperate for her touch, regardless of the cost. Sissy falls very much under the same heading for me.
So that's a short overview, be keen to hear from any others who have a similar thought process towards kink

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Diaperskirt

Posted December 28th, 2016 ~ 8:59 pm

I think you'll find plenty of people that derive that same pleasure from humiliation and are also cis men. Like you said, feminine and sissy clothing is emblematic of having no power for you. For others, it can evoke similar feelings of pleasure but for thematically different reasons. I myself and others derive pleasure from feeling feminine and innocence, and clothing representing exaggerated young girlhood is emblematic of those themes. Context makes all the difference.

~To be a girl is to be honest and expressive of your emotions. To wear diapers shows comfort in your body and trust in another~
I like to play Would You Rather and Dress Up, so come play with me in the games section. ^_^
*Formerly tutu49*

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babytotal

Posted December 28th, 2016 ~ 9:14 pm

@ Diaperskirt

I assumed there must be a fair few to think like me, it's fun to hear what it is that draws people to this site

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Diaperskirt

Posted December 29th, 2016 ~ 5:12 am

@ babytotal

I concur, :)

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Boboboy

Posted December 29th, 2016 ~ 12:20 am

For me its a bit of both. I enjoy acting like a sissy wheather its as a baby or older but I also enjoy the humiliation and degradation that a good dom mommy can dish out. This site has been great in letting me bring out my sissy side more.

Love and kisses boboboy ❤💋

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kay3070

Posted December 29th, 2016 ~ 1:25 pm

Hiya babytotal! There are definitely many who think the same - me included. The whole point of my own petticoat punishment is the fact that there is no age regression - I am put into nappies and sissy dresses etc purely for the humiliation of being my respective age and being 'forced' to wear such embarrassing outfits. I go thru certain aspects of nursery discipline as punishment - not as an adult baby and, like yourself, erotic acts are always included making it a very adult in nature - not to mention restraints, spankings, anal toys and all manner of kink. In the early days we discussed everything thoroughly before adding to our play but after this amount of years we well know each others desires and she can throw in a curve ball without warning to great effect - making my nappy pins strain with the resulting excitement.
Big hugs!

MU-WAH!!! luv and hugs from Kay Kandyfloss xxx

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babytotal

Posted January 2nd, 2017 ~ 11:53 am

@ kay3070

sounds like you're living the dream, very jealous.

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kay3070

Posted January 3rd, 2017 ~ 3:49 pm

@ babytotal

Believe me, I consider myself very, very lucky indeed. It wasn't always so tho - it took me many years of nothing but dreaming before I found my good lady. It isn't 24/7 or anything daft like that - that's just not practical unless you are a lottery winner or something (lol) - but we've built up our fun over the years into something that suits us both so well.
No need to be jealous - just keep on searching for that Mistress of your dreams - I hope you find what you are looking for. :-)

MU-WAH!!! luv and hugs from Kay Kandyfloss xxx

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Robyn

Posted December 29th, 2016 ~ 2:04 pm

The comments are so familiar! Petticoat punishment with aspects of AB/DL to feel helpless and humiliated. It goes way back to childhood when boys would tease each other about being sissy or a "girl." Although I am primarily heterosexual, enjoy being bi at times, especially as the submissive.