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Hi,

First of all, I have never been seeking anyone. Even so, I have been with another woman, a 'Mommy' for over a year. But a few weeks ago, I meet this other woman - she's like a real 'stalker'. Mommy is a Couger and is nice to me. This other woman treats me like a science experiment. She promised to not hurt me but she looks at me like the way a cat looks at a mouse. She says she likes me. She also says that I am interesting because she never met a sissy before. She says she kind of “sensed” something different about me somehow.

When she approached me I was too polite to say no to her. But I really didn’t want to get involved with someone else because I’m happy with my Mommy. This woman is very direct. She makes me a little nervous because she owns guns and knives. Also she is way taller than me and is very athletic too.

She likes to listen to me talk. She wants to know about me. That’s kind of good but I’m afraid to bore her or something like that.

Do you think that my fear is exaggerated?
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littlegirl_inside
Fears usually come from our inner instinct and with sissies it is a lot more heightened. It is difficult to say whether your fears are real, but if you feel uncomfortable you need to be strong and distance yourself from her. The best way is to explain, although you are flattered and maybe under different circumstances would be more than happy to be with her, you have someone in your life already and you do not want to hurt them or indeed her. I would dare say there is also a part of you that wants to see what will happen with this woman but if you feel uncomfortable then I wouldnt doing anything to encourage her.

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sissyjj
Jenni, I would agree with this entirely. Well stated Littlegirl_Inside. Do be careful, Jenni. 
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 Fears usually come from our inner instinct and with sissies it is a lot more heightened. It is difficult to say whether your fears are real, but if you feel uncomfortable you need to be strong and distance yourself from her. The best way is to explain, although you are flattered and maybe under different circumstances would be more than happy to be with her, you have someone in your life already and you do not want to hurt them or indeed her. I would dare say there is also a part of you that wants to see what will happen with this woman but if you feel uncomfortable then I wouldnt doing anything to encourage her.

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Hi. Thank you! That does make a lot of sense!! I mean your right, that even though I say she seems interested in me in a strange way - the truth is that I am actually infatuated with her as well... but I can't coninue being this way.
 
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 Jenni, I would agree with this entirely. Well stated Littlegirl_Inside. Do be careful, Jenni.   




Hi. Thank you JJ!! I think you are right too .. . :)
  
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Baby Butch
I would not get involved with this person if you already have someone you are happy with and treats you well. She may have good intentions and no point in leading her to believe you are interested, if you really are not. She also may get angry if you for encouraging her, if really not intrested.

Be polite and let her know how you feel. Also beware, there are a lot of strange people out there who prey upon people like us. I would be more worried if the person was a man. I have seen serious warnings on other web sites about people who trick those like us and intend to harm us.

I had a good friend on Sissy Kiss called Oopsie Panty. She lived in Oregon in a motor home. She was totally into being a little girl and even told me of going to local biker bars to hang out as a little girl.

She was in touch with me daily for several weeks and just suddenly disappeared. Her sissy space is still here, she has been unheard from for well over a year now. I have been worried that something happened to her.
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Baby Butch
I would not get involved with this person if you already have someone you are happy with and treats you well. She may have good intentions and no point in leading her to believe you are interested, if you really are not. She also may get angry with you for encouraging her, if really not intrested.

Be polite and let her know how you feel. Also beware, there are a lot of strange people out there who prey upon people like us. I would be more worried if the person was a man. I have seen serious warnings on other web sites about people who trick those like us and intend to harm us.

I had a good friend on Sissy Kiss called Oopsie Panty. She lived in Oregon in a motor home. She was totally into being a little girl and even told me of going to local biker bars to hang out as a little girl.

She was in touch with me daily for several weeks and just suddenly disappeared. Her sissy space is still here, she has been unheard from for well over a year now. I have been worried that something happened to her.
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 I would not get involved with this person if you already have someone you are happy with and treats you well. She may have good intentions and no point in leading her to believe you are interested, if you really are not. She also may get angry with you for encouraging her, if really not intrested.

Be polite and let her know how you feel. Also beware, there are a lot of strange people out there who prey upon people like us. I would be more worried if the person was a man. I have seen serious warnings on other web sites about people who trick those like us and intend to harm us.

I had a good friend on Sissy Kiss called Oopsie Panty. She lived in Oregon in a motor home. She was totally into being a little girl and even told me of going to local biker bars to hang out as a little girl.

She was in touch with me daily for several weeks and just suddenly disappeared. Her sissy space is still here, she has been unheard from for well over a year now. I have been worried that something happened to her.  




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uuhmm. I know Oopsie Panty. She is in my network but I have not heard from her in a long time. I just assumed she probably dropped Sissy Kiss. My Goshi! I really hope she is okay. Well also I know you're right.

I never meant to lead this person on, she's just soo pushy - she keeps telling me she always gets her way.     
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Sissy Jenni
I tried to tell Mommy about her.. well I'm more afraid of Mommy being mad at this other woman. I don't really care if Mommy is disappointed in me. I really really don't want to be responsible for putting Mommy in or at risk.

Mommy is a strong person too but I don't want to be a trouble maker or anything like that.

I really didn't explain to Mommy vey well because I am afraid to get her involved.
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Baby Butch
Do what you think is right Sissy Jenni and I was only warning you to be careful, did not want to scare you about things.
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Sissy Jenni
Hi,

Two things: First thing is that trying to break up with Eve did not go well.

The other is that my 'Mommy' and I have a very open relationship, so she dates other people (both men and women) and encourages me to date other people also. She has a very positive personality. However I'm pretty sure she doesn't want me to hook up with ****.

I called the other woman (Eve) and tried to tell her that I wanted to explain something to her. She changed the subject as usual and said we'll go see a movie but she'll take me to her house first. (She doesn't really own the house - it's a beautiful place next to the beach near Dianmond Head where a lot of rich people live; it's a 'time-share'. That's where all those weapons are mounted like trophies all over the place.)

So I tried to explain to Eve that I really apprecieate her and all **etc.** but I don't want to continue this. As usual she just stared at me at first. But then she slapped me really hard. It felt like my head might actually go rolling across the floor. It really hurt. She said "No, you don't." Then she said we're going to see a movie. And we did. Strange thing, I felt like I was okay with her just as long as I didn't do anything else stupid to piss her off.

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SissyMichele
Sounds to me like you got your self in a real bind. I've delt with women like her in the past not as bad tho but I actualy had to go as far as a restaining order. You ever tell her how you feel about when you two are together like over the phone never face to face cuz sounds to me like shes been hurt once or twice and found a realy nice person in you and latched on to it and take control of the coversion don't let her talk over you nothing. She may have done some homework too with Sissys stuff on the web things like that and seeing the Sub sissys thinking maybe she could take over this relasonship or that how you like it that sort of thing not realy knowing the turth behind things like that. She may just like it rough too tho hehe and is a complete nutjob. All and all tho if things go south you may need to hit her up with a restraining order. BIG BE SAFE HUGS
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Davinadolly
It sounds to me like 6 of one and half a dozen of the other, in that she has sussed that you are easily manipulated and she is clearly a power driven woman but you seem to have an infatuation with her for that stength and control. You need to decide what you want and I don't think you have made that decision as she maybe gives you something you hoped for in a controlling woman but having gone down the track so far you don't know really if its what you want or not. She could well be playing the domme with the slapping etc and the fact that you did not walk away actually gave her more power over you and it will continue until you put a stop to it.
You need to decide what you want and you can't pussy foot around and once you know then you either go with the flow or you put a stop to it and move on. I know its probably easier than it sounds but the ball is in your court. Just be careful whatever you do but don't blow things out of proportion or it will render you incapable of making sensible decisions.
Infatuation in the sissyworld will just turn you into a puppy to be played with and you need to step outside this and look at it from an adult perspective before it goes any further.

Never any clear and firm solutions to relationships as they are all different but you need to take some control which you are perfectly capable of and maybe, you can get this sorted. Respect works both ways even in sissy world and you need to give her something to respect you for and that does not mean being stupid - self control and mutual respect.

Take care and hope some of it helps

Love Davina x
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Sissy Jenni


 Sounds to me like you got your self in a real bind. I've delt with women like her in the past not as bad tho but I actualy had to go as far as a restaining order. You ever tell her how you feel about when you two are together like over the phone never face to face cuz sounds to me like shes been hurt once or twice and found a realy nice person in you and latched on to it and take control of the coversion don't let her talk over you nothing. She may have done some homework too with Sissys stuff on the web things like that and seeing the Sub sissys thinking maybe she could take over this relasonship or that how you like it that sort of thing not realy knowing the turth behind things like that. She may just like it rough too tho hehe and is a complete nutjob. All and all tho if things go south you may need to hit her up with a restraining order. BIG BE SAFE HUGS  





Hi,

Thank you. I really appreciate all of your support. I think a restraining order could be the right thing to do. I don't really know how to do that but i can find out. Thanksie!!
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 It sounds to me like 6 of one and half a dozen of the other, in that she has sussed that you are easily manipulated and she is clearly a power driven woman but you seem to have an infatuation with her for that stength and control. You need to decide what you want and I don't think you have made that decision as she maybe gives you something you hoped for in a controlling woman but having gone down the track so far you don't know really if its what you want or not. She could well be playing the domme with the slapping etc and the fact that you did not walk away actually gave her more power over you and it will continue until you put a stop to it.
You need to decide what you want and you can't pussy foot around and once you know then you either go with the flow or you put a stop to it and move on. I know its probably easier than it sounds but the ball is in your court. Just be careful whatever you do but don't blow things out of proportion or it will render you incapable of making sensible decisions.
Infatuation in the sissyworld will just turn you into a puppy to be played with and you need to step outside this and look at it from an adult perspective before it goes any further.

Never any clear and firm solutions to relationships as they are all different but you need to take some control which you are perfectly capable of and maybe, you can get this sorted. Respect works both ways even in sissy world and you need to give her something to respect you for and that does not mean being stupid - self control and mutual respect.

Take care and hope some of it helps

Love Davina x  





Hi,

Thank you! You make a lot of sense.. In hindsight I did a lot of things wrong. I'm still a nubee to this.



I don't think she's right for me. I didn't approach her, she came on to me and I didn't know what to do. Thank you, I understand that I have to make a choice
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Baby Butch
Sounds like you met a wild one, Sissy Jenni, some people are into that sort of thing. Hope you are alright and work it out to your advantage. I must admit I would love to be in Hawaii. I live in Florida and I don't like it, nothing but overpopulation, pollution, crime, and I am sick of Disney and dirty beaches.
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 Sounds like you met a wild one, Sissy Jenni, some people are into that sort of thing. Hope you are alright and work it out to your advantage. I must admit I would love to be in Hawaii. I live in Florida and I don't like it, nothing but overpopulation, pollution, crime, and I am sick of Disney and dirty beaches.  





Hi Baby Butch!

Yes I think a "wild one" describes her well. I admit she is attractive and interesting but I don't think we mix well - I am way too meek for her.

Well I admit I think Hawaii is relatively nice. I went to Florida as a teenager. It was humid and a met such a cute a black girl in Orlando whose family hated me because I wasn't black. I was going to go to the Space Center but my crazy druggie friends talked me into partying at the beach instead. That was my Florida experience.

But I as for this other person think we have gone our separate ways. I haven't heard from her lateley and so far I assume she decided I wasn't worth the trouble.

'Mommy' changed her rules and said I can't 'date' anyone without her approval. I think that's good; it makes me feel protected. (That's what Mommys are for, right..)

Mommy and her have a lot in common, they look similar and are both very strong people. But Mommy is nicer - even though she has her 'dark side' too. But she doesn't show it except sometimes at at play time - play can get rough but afterward she is back to being totally nice.  hk05:   
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Hi Baby Butch!

Yes I think a "wild one" describes her well. I admit she is attractive and interesting but I don't think we mix well - I am way too meek for her.

Well I admit I think Hawaii is relatively nice. I went to Florida as a teenager. It was humid and a met such a cute a black girl in Orlando whose family hated me because I wasn't black. I was going to go to the Space Center but my crazy druggie friends talked me into partying at the beach instead. That was my Florida experience.

But I as for this other person think we have gone our separate ways. I haven't heard from her lateley and so far I assume she decided I wasn't worth the trouble.

'Mommy' changed her rules and said I can't 'date' anyone without her approval. I think that's good; it makes me feel protected. (That's what Mommys are for, right..)

Mommy and her have a lot in common, they look similar and are both very strong people. But Mommy is nicer - even though she has her 'dark side' too. But she doesn't show it except sometimes at at play time - play can get rough but afterward she is back to being totally nice.  hk05:   
 




Oh about the girl's family, I come from a tiny town in Louisiana so I understood about their feelings. Segregation and racial attitudes often are very stubborn.

Also now in Hawaii - it is not perfect but race attitudes are so way better than most places on the mainland.

But as for sex attitudes its about 50/50 here, because a lot of people are so brainwashed by the 'missionary culture'. They don't even read or understand their own Bible except in small isolated parts which they read totally out of context, and are spoonfed prejudice and bigotry. **sad**  

**Love**  

Sissy Jenni
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Mistress Amber
Hi Sissy Jenni,
So glad to read that thing seem to have been sorted out. Just be careful sweetheart and dont ever put yourself in danger. Glad you have a lovely mummy to take care of you.
Be safe and happy x
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Baby Butch
Hello again Sissy Jenni, hope you are well and having fun in Hawaii with Mommy.
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